It all just seems like a dream now as I am back into the real world of rush hour, work and daily routine but just a few days ago me and my babies were on a lovely holiday to Legoland and Singapore.
Thursday 15th November 2012
After breakfast, we loaded our packed bags and started our journey down south towards Johor Bahru. We were cruising along the E2 KL-Seremban Highway, had a few stopovers, had lunch at A&W Ayer Keroh Restaurant Jejantas and reached Johor Bahru within 5 hours. I planned this little trip a while back after buying a package deal for Legoland from New Asia Holidays at the Matta fair. It was a good deal for 3 days and 2 nights staying at the Grand Blue Wave Hotel and transport provided to Legoland and back. For 5 people, it costs RM1000 ++ including breakfast.
The hotel was fantastic. The kids were like "This is our hotel?" with wide eyes. I was pleasantly surprised. The room was comfortable and had good facilities.
Friday 16th November 2012
Well, life in this world is a test and to remind us of this, my eldest caught a viral infection and had high temperature on the day of our journey to Johor Bahru. I dosed her up with paracetamol and got her to rest. I was worried since the Friday, the next day is our long awaited Legoland trip but I have learned to simply put my Trust in Allah SWT, not to worry about things anymore so, it was a matter of medicine, rest, dua and Tawakkal. I told her to make dua and reminded her that sometimes when we are enjoying life we might forget that this life is temporary, a place of test. This is not Jannah and we forget our real destination which is not Legoland but the akhirah. So, when Allah SWT gives us test in our quest for fun and enjoyment, it is good for us in order not to forget our real purpose in life.
She stayed in the hotel to rest whilst I took the others for dinner. We went to KSL Mall. We went round and round the place looking for some food outlet but not much choice. There was a food court but it didn't seem halal and finally we went for KFC. Thought I would never go there again and wondered how things would be if Muslims were not in charge of this country. It would be so hard to find halal food restaurants. All these little things we take for granted.
The next day, her temperature was not completely settled. I had to ask her the difficult question. "Do you think you can go to Legoland?" but she was adamant so, I took one last initiative and gave her Ibuprofen 200mg stat! That seemed to do the trick Alhamdulillah and she was able to get up.
We reached Legoland early around 9.20am and the doors opened at 10am so we waited for a while. there was already a queue and as soon as the doors opened, everyone was excited to go into the theme park. We went to Lego City first and the kids went on the driving school and boat riding. We then looked at the Miniland where there were miniature lego models of famous places in Asia e.g. the forbidden city and Taj Mahal. We went to Lego Kingdoms. the older two went on the Big Dragon ride which is the main attraction roller coaster ride. I wanted to go on it but unfortunately when I got there, there was a technical difficulty so, instead I dragged all of the kids to the Apprentice Dragon ride.
All of us were ready to go on it but at the last minute, my youngest had cold feet. He said, "I don't want to go on this ride. I'm scared." We had been waiting for 10 minutes and I had my feet inside the Dragon so I pulled him in and sat him down, put the seat belt on and before we knew it, the ride started...and we were screaming our heads off except for my little boy who had this confused look on his face. When the ride ended, he had a mixture look of fright and joy at the same time. He secretly enjoyed it! My little girl was going "Let's go on it again!!!" I wondered if I was being cruel and probably scared my little man for life but nah...he was fine.
Then, we went to the Lego Technic area where there was a water ride and we went on Project X. I sat in front with my little girl and my eldest at the back of the four wheel seater. Just as the ride started, my eldest said with a fright "What am I doing on this?" and we climbed up and up and finally as we reached the top, I thought "Oh God! What the hell am I doing on this?" and down we went very steeply and up again; and that was when I realized, I survived zero gravity and started to scream AHHHHHH!!!! and it was just screaming all the way but it was fun!
It was then around 2pm and the sun was scorching HOT...We had umbrellas, sun cream, drinks & mineral water but the weather was too hot for us; so we went to the souveneir shop and had a look around all the overpriced items. We left Legoland and into the adjacent mall for lunch. We reached the hotel around 4pm ready to rest and sleep because tomorrow is another adventure for us to enter Singapore.
Saturday 17th November 2012
Singapore is my hometown, the place I used to spend my Eid as a child.
We survived Legoland and today, we shall see if I will survive driving into Singapore without getting a fine. We left the hotel at around 10am and I looked at my car and thought "There is no way my car is entering Singapore looking like that!" so, I took the car for a wash. The drive from the hotel to Woodlands was less than 5 minutes but we had to wait an hour to get pass the check points due to the jam. First we went through the Malaysian Immigration and then the Singaporean Immigration and then I had to buy the Autopass card which is like a vehicle entrance and exit card. It can be topped up at any 7-11 or just before Singaporean Immigration at the exit. It can also be used for parking.
After the check point, it was a straight road from BKE to SLE and then TPE. I was so nervous I couldn't believe it cause I had never driven into Singapore by myself before. I had to remember not to go into CTE because it is a toll road. The first thing we noticed as we entered Singapore was how orderly everything looked. The roads, the trees, the sign boards...everything was precise and order which was nice but very scary at the same time. I felt I had to be on guard at all times.
After missing a few turns and getting extremely frustrated because I was afraid to take U-turns at traffic lights in case it was prohibited, I went round and round looking for my cousin's apartment and I took for granted about my mobile phone call plans and didn't opt for international calls so, I couldn't call anyone but Tawakkal Ala Allah, I finally found her flat. It was a nice little cosy 3 bedroom flat. There were high rise flats everywhere and they call it 'pigeon hole'. I was greeted by all of my family members and we had the best day ever. Alhamdulillah I have such wonderful uncles, aunts and cousins. We chatted and chatted. The kids enjoyed meeting their cousins too and they played as though they had been playing together everyday since birth.
We left Singapore at 8.30pm after praying Maghrib, dinner and more chats. I just found out that my uncle is a biker and he owns the biggest Harley Davidson in the whole of Singapore. Wow! Didn't realize I have such cool and interesting uncles. The journey back was uneventful, got passed the two checkpoints. Made a few rest stops along the way and reached KL at 2.30am. I was shattered but so grateful to Allah SWT for an amazing holiday.
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Tips to Legoland
- Due to hot weather, bring sun block cream, umbrellas, hats and lots of drinks. They have restaurants and drinks booth but it is expensive and sometimes full of people. The map of Legoland is given FOC. Try to go anti clockwise to avoid long queues.
- Legoland is very suitable for young children, the rides are mild and not super scary like some theme parks. It is very child friendly and enjoyable for kids from 3+ (this is my own opinion)
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Tips to Singapore
- Get your Singapore entry card before reaching Immigration and fill it in prior to entry.
- If your car is entering Singapore for first time, you have to buy an autopass which is in a booth just after the immigration. It costs (at the present time) S$10 and you can top up at any Singapore 7-11 or just prior to exiting. To exit Singapore, you put the card in the card slot at the Immigration exit booth and press car. S$1.20 will be deducted from the card.
- At the Malaysian Immigration when exiting Singapore, you have to pay RM2.30 by Touch N Go.
- There are parking at any flats, if you are visiting friends or family but you have to display parking coupons. You can get the coupons from 7-11 or your friends or family (if they have any)
- Singapore is notorious for traffic fines. People drive within the speed limit and do not disobey traffic rules and traffic lights.
Within this blog I share my thoughts and experiences of relocating back to Malaysia after 17 years being abroad in London.
Sunday, 18 November 2012
Friday, 12 October 2012
Answering a child's question on 'rasuk' and 'hantu'
My son sat beside me with a serious look on his face. He asked me if it is true that there are ghosts in his school. He said that some students were possessed (rasuk). I asked him if he saw it and he said no but his friends told him.
I was like..."Kau percaya la kawan2 kau tu..." (and you believe your friends!)
He was saying "Diorang kata diaorang nampak dengan mata kepala diorang sendiri" (they said they saw it with their own eyes on their own heads)
So I said with a half serious sounding voice "Ye lah. Ade ke sesiapa yang nampak dengan mata kepala orang lain." (of course, does anyone see with other people's eyes on other people's head?)
He looked slightly confused. I like teasing my kids sometimes or my students. It is cute to see their reaction and the look on their faces.
Anyway, the serious bit came. I said
"Look! these things exist. All these ghosts Pochong, Momok, etc...etc...they are all Jinn or Syaitan. They just want to disturb us and scare us but we must remember that everything that exists in this universe belongs to Allah, is created by Allah so, the only One we should fear is God."
I continued...
First of all, we must believe (have Yakin) that God is the Most Powerful. Nothing else have Power but Him.
Secondly, try to avoid all these things as much as we can. Don't look for them, don't try to find them because even though they live in this world but they are in a different dimension so, don't look for trouble but if you do come across these things then....
Thirdly, seek protection from Allah SWT. We can seek protection by reciting Ayatul Qursi.
ٱللَّهُ لَآ إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ ٱلۡحَىُّ ٱلۡقَيُّومُۚ لَا تَأۡخُذُهُ ۥ سِنَةٌ۬ وَلَا نَوۡمٌ۬ۚ لَّهُ ۥ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٲتِ وَمَا فِى ٱلۡأَرۡضِۗ مَن ذَا ٱلَّذِى يَشۡفَعُ عِندَهُ ۥۤ إِلَّا بِإِذۡنِهِۦۚ يَعۡلَمُ مَا بَيۡنَ أَيۡدِيهِمۡ وَمَا خَلۡفَهُمۡۖ وَلَا يُحِيطُونَ بِشَىۡءٍ۬ مِّنۡ عِلۡمِهِۦۤ إِلَّا بِمَا شَآءَۚ وَسِعَ كُرۡسِيُّهُ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٲتِ وَٱلۡأَرۡضَۖ وَلَا يَـُٔودُهُ ۥ حِفۡظُهُمَاۚ وَهُوَ ٱلۡعَلِىُّ ٱلۡعَظِيمُ
and wherever you go, before you leave the house or in your journey or whenever you feel afraid, you can read "bismillahillazi la yadurru (arabic)..."
بِسـمِ اللهِ الذي لا يَضُـرُّ مَعَ اسمِـهِ شَيءٌ في الأرْضِ وَلا في السّمـاءِ وَهـوَ السّمـيعُ العَلـيم
In the name of Allah, by whose name nothing is harmed neither on the earth or in the heavens. And He is the All Hearer, All Knowing.
then he said that even though these boys read Qur'an, they read what they knew but they were still affected by the possession.
I replied, "Don't be afraid. Always read with yakin (conviction) and you must have confidence that Allah is the Most Powerful and nothing else is more Powerful. If you fear Allah, you will not fear anything or anyone but if you do not fear Allah then you will fear everything and everyone."
However, if these things still harm you or if anyone harms you, it means that Allah SWT is testing you. It doesn't mean that these things have any power because nothing can help you nor harm you without the permission of Allah. So, don't be afraid but don't go looking for trouble either.
Besides, you are a man. You will be the protector. Men are supposed to fight against oppression, to protect their family. You cannot be afraid when you are in the battlefield. Look at the sahabah (companions of the Prophet) they were not afraid of anything or anyone. So, we want to be like them inshaAllah.
The best part was he hugged me and said 'thank you mom' Alhamdulillah...:-)
I was like..."Kau percaya la kawan2 kau tu..." (and you believe your friends!)
He was saying "Diorang kata diaorang nampak dengan mata kepala diorang sendiri" (they said they saw it with their own eyes on their own heads)
So I said with a half serious sounding voice "Ye lah. Ade ke sesiapa yang nampak dengan mata kepala orang lain." (of course, does anyone see with other people's eyes on other people's head?)
He looked slightly confused. I like teasing my kids sometimes or my students. It is cute to see their reaction and the look on their faces.
Anyway, the serious bit came. I said
"Look! these things exist. All these ghosts Pochong, Momok, etc...etc...they are all Jinn or Syaitan. They just want to disturb us and scare us but we must remember that everything that exists in this universe belongs to Allah, is created by Allah so, the only One we should fear is God."
I continued...
First of all, we must believe (have Yakin) that God is the Most Powerful. Nothing else have Power but Him.
Secondly, try to avoid all these things as much as we can. Don't look for them, don't try to find them because even though they live in this world but they are in a different dimension so, don't look for trouble but if you do come across these things then....
Thirdly, seek protection from Allah SWT. We can seek protection by reciting Ayatul Qursi.
ٱللَّهُ لَآ إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ ٱلۡحَىُّ ٱلۡقَيُّومُۚ لَا تَأۡخُذُهُ ۥ سِنَةٌ۬ وَلَا نَوۡمٌ۬ۚ لَّهُ ۥ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٲتِ وَمَا فِى ٱلۡأَرۡضِۗ مَن ذَا ٱلَّذِى يَشۡفَعُ عِندَهُ ۥۤ إِلَّا بِإِذۡنِهِۦۚ يَعۡلَمُ مَا بَيۡنَ أَيۡدِيهِمۡ وَمَا خَلۡفَهُمۡۖ وَلَا يُحِيطُونَ بِشَىۡءٍ۬ مِّنۡ عِلۡمِهِۦۤ إِلَّا بِمَا شَآءَۚ وَسِعَ كُرۡسِيُّهُ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٲتِ وَٱلۡأَرۡضَۖ وَلَا يَـُٔودُهُ ۥ حِفۡظُهُمَاۚ وَهُوَ ٱلۡعَلِىُّ ٱلۡعَظِيمُ
and wherever you go, before you leave the house or in your journey or whenever you feel afraid, you can read "bismillahillazi la yadurru (arabic)..."
بِسـمِ اللهِ الذي لا يَضُـرُّ مَعَ اسمِـهِ شَيءٌ في الأرْضِ وَلا في السّمـاءِ وَهـوَ السّمـيعُ العَلـيم
In the name of Allah, by whose name nothing is harmed neither on the earth or in the heavens. And He is the All Hearer, All Knowing.
then he said that even though these boys read Qur'an, they read what they knew but they were still affected by the possession.
I replied, "Don't be afraid. Always read with yakin (conviction) and you must have confidence that Allah is the Most Powerful and nothing else is more Powerful. If you fear Allah, you will not fear anything or anyone but if you do not fear Allah then you will fear everything and everyone."
However, if these things still harm you or if anyone harms you, it means that Allah SWT is testing you. It doesn't mean that these things have any power because nothing can help you nor harm you without the permission of Allah. So, don't be afraid but don't go looking for trouble either.
Besides, you are a man. You will be the protector. Men are supposed to fight against oppression, to protect their family. You cannot be afraid when you are in the battlefield. Look at the sahabah (companions of the Prophet) they were not afraid of anything or anyone. So, we want to be like them inshaAllah.
The best part was he hugged me and said 'thank you mom' Alhamdulillah...:-)
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